Brothers and sisters it's a pleasure to be here today. My enthusiasm is accelerated by the fact that it is the Christmas season. I love Christmas - I love the songs that we sing in church every December - the spirit of giving and reaching out to express our love and appreciation for our family and friends whom we love. Those that have the Spirit of Christ or Christmas don't stop with just those with whom they love - but reach out to all those in need no matter their situation.

But as with everything that is wonderful and good, Satan tries to manipulate the events around Christmas and influence us to be selfish, greedy and forget the reason we should be celebrating in the first place. The majority of references of Christmas in the media and entertainment - are not Christ centered. Advertisements and many programs concentrate on the need for expensive trinkets and self-filling gratification. How he does this and his purposes aren't the topic of my remarks today - and are obvious to all of us.  Instead I would like to talk about the wondrous plan, life and sacrifice of our Savior and Redeemer - even Jesus the Christ.

In our heavenly home we rejoiced as our Father laid out His eternal plan of salvation. All of his children would have the opportunity to come to earth and receive a physical body and to prove themselves worthy to become as He is and receive Eternal Life and Exaltation. During this time we would be tried and tested - we would be free to choose what path we would follow. Each of us were given the light of Christ as our guide - and the promise of receiving additional light, knowledge and wisdom as we live righteously and seek the promptings of the Holy Ghost.

Many of us as members of the church mistakenly take this promise for granted. The Savior to the Prophet Joseph Smith stated: For there are many yet on the earth among all sects, parties, and denominations, who are blinded by the subtle craftiness of men, whereby they lie in wait to deceive, and who are only kept from the truth because they know not where to find it-- Others that may have found it, are like those in Lehi's dream, And after they had tasted of the fruit they were ashamed, because of those that were scoffing at them; and they fell away into forbidden paths and were lost. Still others are like the foolish virgins that know the bridegroom is coming, but through laziness or complacency just didn't take the time to fill their lamps with the needed oil or righteousness.

No matter which group we fall into - we need the knowledge and wisdom of God to forge our ways through difficulties, sorrow and pain to return back to our heavenly home. We were told that all of us would make mistakes and fall short on occasion. But there would be a way set up for us to get back on track and accomplish the task we were about to undertake. But because of the demands of justice - the price for our sins and mistakes needed to be paid. A Savior - redeemer - someone needed to pay the debt. Two of Gods spirits stepped forward -

One was willing to take that role, but only if he received the glory and honor - his plan would take away the agency of man and force us to remain faithful, but he assured us that no one would be lost in the process. He then would receive the honor and glory to himself, he thought to put himself before God.  But then our older brother - faithful and obedient, offered his life to fulfill the plan of our Eternal Heavenly Father. And one answered like unto the Son of Man said Here am I, send me.  (Abraham 3:27). He would pay the price - open the gate - make a way possible for our return. Fulfilling his fathers will - the only plan that would truly work.

16 For behold, I, God, have suffered these things for all, that they might not suffer if they would repent;

17 But if they would not repent they must suffer even as I;

18 Which suffering caused myself, even God, the greatest of all, to tremble because of pain, and to bleed at every pore, and to suffer both body and spirit--and would that I might not drink the bitter cup, and shrink--

19 Nevertheless, glory be to the Father, and I partook and finished my preparations unto the children of men.
(D&C 19:16-19)

Brothers and sisters - our responsibility is to live by his conditions - repent of our sins and accept His Atoning sacrifice that has been offered.

Elder Bruce R McConkie stated -

"His atonement is the most transcendent event that ever has or ever will occur from Creation’s dawn through all the ages of a never-ending eternity.

It is the supreme act of goodness and grace that only a god could perform. Through it, all of the terms and conditions of the Father’s eternal plan of salvation became operative.

Through it are brought to pass the immortality and eternal life of man. Through it, all men are saved from death, hell, the devil, and endless torment.

And through it, all who believe and obey the glorious gospel of God, all who are true and faithful and overcome the world, all who suffer for Christ and his word, all who are chastened and scourged in the Cause of him whose we are—all shall become as their Maker and sit with him on his throne and reign with him forever in everlasting glory."(End quote)

Moments ago we partook of the Sacrament - renewing the covenant that we make in the waters of baptism. Taking upon us the name of Christ - promising to always remember him - keep his commandment - bare one another burdens that they may be light. Indeed we are promising to live the true principles of Christmas everyday of our lives. We all promised to accept his conditions to receive the promised blessing or reward.

It was the implementation of this plan that made the birth of the Savior such a wonderful event and why we still celebrate it today. Every prophet that ever lived had foretold of his birth and the signs that would accompany it. It was such a wondrous event that angels of God announced it to the shepherds watching their sheep - heavenly choirs sang his praises from the heavens above. A new star appeared in the heavens.

Perhaps Isaiah stated it best when penned the poetic verse.

6 "For unto us a child is born, unto us a son is given: and the government shall be upon his shoulder: and his name shall be called Wonderful, Counsellor, The mighty God, The everlasting Father, The Prince of Peace." (Isaiah 9:6)

Amidst the turmoil of bondage and sin - a Eternal King and Savior came into the world, bringing with him the mission and capacity to free all mankind from eternal pain and damnation. Indeed he is the Prince of Peace - his gospel is the only way we can obtain true peace and happiness.  He answered the ends of the law - he paid the price, and as I read a moment ago he suffered incomprehensible pain that caused himself to bleed from every pore.

Isaiah stated it well:

4 ¶Surely he hath borne our griefs, and carried our sorrows: yet we did esteem him stricken, smitten of God, and afflicted.

5 But he was wounded for our transgressions, he was bruised for our iniquities: the chastisement of our peace was upon him; and with his stripes we are healed.

6 All we like sheep have gone astray; we have turned every one to his own way; and the Lord hath laid on him the iniquity of us all.

Brothers and sisters it's a pleasure to be here today. My enthusiasm is accelerated by the fact that it is the Christmas season. I love Christmas - I love the songs that we sing in church every December - the spirit of giving and reaching out to express our love and appreciation for our family and friends whom we love. Those that have the Spirit of Christ or Christmas don't stop with just those with whom they love - but reach out to all those in need no matter their situation.

But as with everything that is wonderful and good, Satan tries to manipulate the events around Christmas and influence us to be selfish, greedy and forget the reason we should be celebrating in the first place. The majority of references of Christmas in the media and entertainment - are not Christ centered. Advertisements and many programs concentrate on the need for expensive trinkets and self-filling gratification. How he does this and his purposes aren't the topic of my remarks today - and are obvious to all of us.  Instead I would like to talk about the wondrous plan, life and sacrifice of our Savior and Redeemer - even Jesus the Christ.

In our heavenly home we rejoiced as our Father laid out His eternal plan of salvation. All of his children would have the opportunity to come to earth and receive a physical body and to prove themselves worthy to become as He is and receive Eternal Life and Exaltation. During this time we would be tried and tested - we would be free to choose what path we would follow. Each of us were given the light of Christ as our guide - and the promise of receiving additional light, knowledge and wisdom as we live righteously and seek the promptings of the Holy Ghost.

Many of us as members of the church mistakenly take this promise for granted. The Savior to the Prophet Joseph Smith stated: For there are many yet on the earth among all sects, parties, and denominations, who are blinded by the subtle craftiness of men, whereby they lie in wait to deceive, and who are only kept from the truth because they know not where to find it-- Others that may have found it, are like those in Lehi's dream, And after they had tasted of the fruit they were ashamed, because of those that were scoffing at them; and they fell away into forbidden paths and were lost. Still others are like the foolish virgins that know the bridegroom is coming, but through laziness or complacency just didn't take the time to fill their lamps with the needed oil or righteousness.

No matter which group we fall into - we need the knowledge and wisdom of God to forge our ways through difficulties, sorrow and pain to return back to our heavenly home. We were told that all of us would make mistakes and fall short on occasion. But there would be a way set up for us to get back on track and accomplish the task we were about to undertake. But because of the demands of justice - the price for our sins and mistakes needed to be paid. A Savior - redeemer - someone needed to pay the debt. Two of Gods spirits stepped forward -

One was willing to take that role, but only if he received the glory and honor - his plan would take away the agency of man and force us to remain faithful, but he assured us that no one would be lost in the process. He then would receive the honor and glory to himself, he thought to put himself before God.  But then our older brother - faithful and obedient, offered his life to fulfill the plan of our Eternal Heavenly Father. And one answered like unto the Son of Man said Here am I, send me.  (Abraham 3:27). He would pay the price - open the gate - make a way possible for our return. Fulfilling his fathers will - the only plan that would truly work.

16 For behold, I, God, have suffered these things for all, that they might not suffer if they would repent;

17 But if they would not repent they must suffer even as I;

18 Which suffering caused myself, even God, the greatest of all, to tremble because of pain, and to bleed at every pore, and to suffer both body and spirit--and would that I might not drink the bitter cup, and shrink--

19 Nevertheless, glory be to the Father, and I partook and finished my preparations unto the children of men.
(D&C 19:16-19)

Brothers and sisters - our responsibility is to live by his conditions - repent of our sins and accept His Atoning sacrifice that has been offered.

Elder Bruce R McConkie stated -

"His atonement is the most transcendent event that ever has or ever will occur from Creation’s dawn through all the ages of a never-ending eternity.

It is the supreme act of goodness and grace that only a god could perform. Through it, all of the terms and conditions of the Father’s eternal plan of salvation became operative.

Through it are brought to pass the immortality and eternal life of man. Through it, all men are saved from death, hell, the devil, and endless torment.

And through it, all who believe and obey the glorious gospel of God, all who are true and faithful and overcome the world, all who suffer for Christ and his word, all who are chastened and scourged in the Cause of him whose we are—all shall become as their Maker and sit with him on his throne and reign with him forever in everlasting glory."(End quote)

Moments ago we partook of the Sacrament - renewing the covenant that we make in the waters of baptism. Taking upon us the name of Christ - promising to always remember him - keep his commandment - bare one another burdens that they may be light. Indeed we are promising to live the true principles of Christmas everyday of our lives. We all promised to accept his conditions to receive the promised blessing or reward.

It was the implementation of this plan that made the birth of the Savior such a wonderful event and why we still celebrate it today. Every prophet that ever lived had foretold of his birth and the signs that would accompany it. It was such a wondrous event that angels of God announced it to the shepherds watching their sheep - heavenly choirs sang his praises from the heavens above. A new star appeared in the heavens.

Perhaps Isaiah stated it best when penned the poetic verse.

6 "For unto us a child is born, unto us a son is given: and the government shall be upon his shoulder: and his name shall be called Wonderful, Counsellor, The mighty God, The everlasting Father, The Prince of Peace." (Isaiah 9:6)

Amidst the turmoil of bondage and sin - a Eternal King and Savior came into the world, bringing with him the mission and capacity to free all mankind from eternal pain and damnation. Indeed he is the Prince of Peace - his gospel is the only way we can obtain true peace and happiness.  He answered the ends of the law - he paid the price, and as I read a moment ago he suffered incomprehensible pain that caused himself to bleed from every pore.

Isaiah stated it well:

4 ¶Surely he hath borne our griefs, and carried our sorrows: yet we did esteem him stricken, smitten of God, and afflicted.

5 But he was wounded for our transgressions, he was bruised for our iniquities: the chastisement of our peace was upon him; and with his stripes we are healed.

6 All we like sheep have gone astray; we have turned every one to his own way; and the Lord hath laid on him the iniquity of us all.

7 He was oppressed, and he was afflicted, yet he opened not his mouth: he is brought as a lamb to the slaughter, and as a sheep before her shearers is dumb, so he openeth not his mouth. (Isaiah 53:4-7)

How could such an event be physically possible - indeed he was a perfect being - a literal son of God in the flesh. We know that a angel from on high was sent to comfort and strengthen him. But it is still incomprehensible - another thing that helped him -  Isaiah mentioned a couple of verses later: "when thou shalt make his soul an offering for sin, he shall see his seed," (Isaiah 53:10)

During his great atoning sacrifice he was able to see all of those whom would accept this great gift. He saw your face and mine. As he suffered every pain, infirmity and sorrow known to man he saw his seed. How else would he understand what it is that we are going through - as we languish in sin, pain and difficulty. Isn't it great to know that there is someone that has gone through it before us and understands our pain. He knows the answer to what can be done to receive the peace and happiness we need.
He has already paid the price for the redemption and relief we so desperately seek.

No wonder the heavens sang for joy when the time had come for his mission to begin. His selfless love and obedience had always been evident from his defense of the plan in the first place. All of us were given the option to follow him at that time and we have renewed that covenant to do so again when the sacrament was pasted.

At Christmas we celebrate the birth of the Lord and Savior Jesus Christ - we give and receive gifts, just like the wiseman brought to the baby and his family. Over time true believers and the world has created symbols and traditions that most of us enjoy with our families and friends.  
But the greatest symbols of Christianity are in the lives of those that follow his teachings and know him personally as they have sought his spirit and redeeming love. Have thankfully made the atonement a part of their lives.

He has told us that if you love me keep my commandment - or if you have done it unto the least of these my brethren you have done it unto me.

On one occasion an inquiring lawyer came to the Savior and asked, “Master, which is the great commandment in the law?” The Savior responded, “Thou shalt love the Lord thy God with all thy heart, and with all thy soul, and with all thy mind. This is the first and great commandment. And the second is like unto it, Thou shalt love thy neighbor as thyself.”

How do we demonstrate to our Heavenly Father that we love Him? Many years ago there was a popular song that said: “It’s easy to say I love you, easy to say I’ll be true; easy to say these foolish things, but prove it by the things you do.” We have a responsibility to prove to our Heavenly Father, by the things we do, that we love Him.

In short, we need to extend ourselves in service to our Heavenly Father if we are to demonstrate our love for Him.

Brothers and sister, our Prophet has asked us to hasten the work of salvation. This includes a number of areas, many of which are difficult or scary for some of us.


Of all the blessings I have had in my life, one of the sweetest is that feeling the Lord provides when I know that He has answered the prayer of another person through me. As we love the Lord, as we love our neighbor, we discover that our Heavenly Father will answer the prayers of others through our ministry.7 He was oppressed, and he was afflicted, yet he opened not his mouth: he is brought as a lamb to the slaughter, and as a sheep before her shearers is dumb, so he openeth not his mouth. (Isaiah 53:4-7)

How could such an event be physically possible - indeed he was a perfect being - a literal son of God in the flesh. We know that a angel from on high was sent to comfort and strengthen him. But it is still incomprehensible - another thing that helped him -  Isaiah mentioned a couple of verses later: "when thou shalt make his soul an offering for sin, he shall see his seed," (Isaiah 53:10)

During his great atoning sacrifice he was able to see all of those whom would accept this great gift. He saw your face and mine. As he suffered every pain, infirmity and sorrow known to man he saw his seed. How else would he understand what it is that we are going through - as we languish in sin, pain and difficulty. Isn't it great to know that there is someone that has gone through it before us and understands our pain. He knows the answer to what can be done to receive the peace and happiness we need.
He has already paid the price for the redemption and relief we so desperately seek.

No wonder the heavens sang for joy when the time had come for his mission to begin. His selfless love and obedience had always been evident from his defense of the plan in the first place. All of us were given the option to follow him at that time and we have renewed that covenant to do so again when the sacrament was pasted.

At Christmas we celebrate the birth of the Lord and Savior Jesus Christ - we give and receive gifts, just like the wiseman brought to the baby and his family. Over time true believers and the world has created symbols and traditions that most of us enjoy with our families and friends.  
But the greatest symbols of Christianity are in the lives of those that follow his teachings and know him personally as they have sought his spirit and redeeming love. Have thankfully made the atonement a part of their lives.

He has told us that if you love me keep my commandment - or if you have done it unto the least of these my brethren you have done it unto me.

On one occasion an inquiring lawyer came to the Savior and asked, “Master, which is the great commandment in the law?” The Savior responded, “Thou shalt love the Lord thy God with all thy heart, and with all thy soul, and with all thy mind. This is the first and great commandment. And the second is like unto it, Thou shalt love thy neighbor as thyself.”

How do we demonstrate to our Heavenly Father that we love Him? Many years ago there was a popular song that said: “It’s easy to say I love you, easy to say I’ll be true; easy to say these foolish things, but prove it by the things you do.” We have a responsibility to prove to our Heavenly Father, by the things we do, that we love Him.

In short, we need to extend ourselves in service to our Heavenly Father if we are to demonstrate our love for Him.

Brothers and sister, our Prophet has asked us to hasten the work of salvation. This includes a number of areas, many of which are difficult or scary for some of us.


Of all the blessings I have had in my life, one of the sweetest is that feeling the Lord provides when I know that He has answered the prayer of another person through me. As we love the Lord, as we love our neighbor, we discover that our Heavenly Father will answer the prayers of others through our ministry.

It's a pleasure to be with you here this evening. As I was contemplating what I would talk about - - this week I have been reminded of some of my weaknesses and shortcomings. This remembering can be a humbling or difficult experience.  When I'm feeling sorry for myself - or throwing a pity party, I'm reminded of what was told to the Prophet Joseph Smith in the Liberty Jail -    The Son of Man hath descended below them all. Art thou greater than he?  This kinds of puts my difficulties in a little better perspective - I haven't suffered a fraction of what Joseph Smith suffered let alone the Savior. We have been told. That these challenges are given to us to help us grow- But despite these faults, as I look back over my life, it's obvious that I have been guided, directed, uplifted at every turn, challenge or difficulty that I have faced. But because I am weak - I continue  to question my future - harbor feelings of fear and discouragement over what may be around the next corner? Occasionally I continue to beat myself up because of mistakes and sins that have long been forgiven, or over choices others have made, that I have no control over. Is it logical to think that a loving Heavenly Father would all of the sudden abandon me, when he has never done so before?  In the sacred grove the young Prophet Joseph Smith was over come by the power of the advisory to the point of despair and to abandon himself to destruction. But "just at this moment of great alarm, he saw a pillar of light exactly over his head, above the brightness of the sun, which descended gradually until it fell upon him." He was not abandoned - on the contrary, after these feeling of total despair, occurred one of the greatest events in history.   This vision not only changed his life, but the lives of every soul that has lived since - the ushering in of the dispensation of the fullness of times. No longer were the heavens closed - the restoration of the gospel, it's priesthood, authority and the continual revelation through a living prophet of God had began. Just think what excitement and celebration should have transpired at the news that such an event. I'm sure that is what happened in the heavens. But in up-state New York, these events were met with ridicule, persecution and the desire to take his life. In his own words the Prophet Joseph Smith stated: It caused me serious reflection then, and often has since, how very strange it was that an obscure boy, of a little over fourteen years of age, and one, too, who was doomed to the necessity of obtaining a scanty maintenance by his daily labor, should be thought a character of sufficient importance to attract the attention of the great ones of the most popular sects of the day, and in a manner to create in them a spirit of the most bitter persecution and reviling. But strange or not, so it was, and it was often the cause of great sorrow to myself. However, it was nevertheless a fact that I had beheld a vision.....  I had actually seen a light, and in the midst of that light I saw two Personages, and they did in reality speak to me; and though I was hated and persecuted for saying that I had seen a vision, yet it was true; ( end quote) I don't know if all of you can think of someone that is  fourteen years of age - perhaps one of the young men preparing the sacrament in your ward. The only way he could have gotten through such a trial would be to have heavenly assistance.   Unlike the Prophet Joseph Smith, I have not seen a vision or heard a voice from heaven. I have not seen the resurrected Savior, but I have had many opportunities to receive manifestations or witnesses from the Holy Ghost that he lives, that the restoration of the gospel of Jesus Christ has in reality happened and that there are living Prophets and Apostles on the earth.  These manifestations have been so strong that it would be impossible to deny them without offending God. No my experiences would not be classified as a sure witness - I still need to exercise faith, but that faith grows stronger with each manifestation of the spirit. As we seek such experiences  - through our faithfulness, dedication and asking for truth and strength through prayer, we too can receive the perfect knowledge and eventually the eternal life and exaltation promised to all true followers of Christ. But, the process of getting there can be difficult - some of us have been discouraged, depressed and just feel tired.  Many have considered giving up or have allowed the advisory to convince them that it's just not worth it, or WORSE yet, that it's really not that important. Others lie to themselves or justify their actions because everyone else is doing it. This doesn't change the reality or truth of the gospel and the consequences of our disobedience. I understand that I'm talking at a meeting that normally the most faithful members of our stake attend.  But some of the greatest followers of Christ in the scriptures have had their times of discouragement and even times they weren't as faithful as they should have been. Did the Brother of Jared really stop praying to the Lord? Or instead did he just start praying like I do sometimes, going through the motions with a lack of sincerity and not truly seeking individual guidance - that three hour interview where he was chastened must have been a wonderful bitter-sweat experience. Both Alma the Elder and the Younger had their times of difficulty. The Prophet Joseph Smith was so discouraged in the Liberty Jail that he pled - Oh God, where art thou? Everyone of us in this room have had such experiences. All of us have also had time's where we have been closer than normal to the promptings of the Spirit. Alma's speaking to the saints in Zarahemla asked an important question: "And now behold, I say unto you, my brethren, if ye have experienced a change of heart, and if ye have felt to sing the song of redeeming love, I would ask, can ye feel so now?" Where are each of us in our progression? What areas of concern is the spirit telling us we need to work on? I remember getting the impression that I needed to work harder at my relationship with my wife - after telling her I had that impression, there were a number or events that made things momentarily even harder. In its small way this is similar to advisory trying to stop Joseph Smiths first prayer? Hopefully she can continue to forgive me for my shortcomings.   This years theme for the Young Men and Women of the church is taken from D&C 115:5: "Arise and shine forth, that thy light may be a standard for the nations;" This is a challenge to be a little better - to live more in accordance with the Saviors teachings, to fulfill the covenants we have already made. In our last General Conference - Elder Hallstrom talked about the difference of being active in the church and active in the gospel. He stated - "Some have come to think of activity in the Church as the ultimate goal. Therein lies a danger. It is possible to be active in the Church and less active in the gospel. Let me stress: activity in the Church is a highly desirable goal; however, it is insufficient. Activity in the Church is an outward indication of our spiritual desire. If we attend our meetings, hold and fulfill Church responsibilities, and serve others, it is publicly observed. By contrast, the things of the gospel are usually less visible and more difficult to measure, but they are of greater eternal importance. For example, how much faith do we really have? How repentant are we? How meaningful are the ordinances in our lives? How focused are we on our covenants? " (end quote) The fact that you are here this evening is a wonderful thing - but is that sufficient? We need to implement the principles and prompting of the spirit. The other night I had a wonderful conversation with some dear friends that haven't been outwardly active in the church for years. But, as we met it was obvious that they are more active in the gospel than many that I see at church on a consistent basis. Some less active or members of other faiths have a hard time with supposedly active members of the church that are not honest in their dealings, or do not treat others with kindness or respect.  Those that are truly dedicated to the gospel of Christ - want to be like Him, he didn't turn away the beggar - He sat with and loved the sinner, despite their weaknesses. Those that are like the Savior are humble, submissive to the promptings of the spirit, have charity and let virtue garnish their thoughts unceasingly. These are attributes of true followers of Christ.  To my friends I would also like to add - that these Christ like qualities, when obtained, also cause us to have the desires to make covenants and promises with the Lord - which takes place with the priesthood and in sacrament meeting and in the temples of God.  Alma's question then takes on even great significance - have we felt the song of redeeming love, do we have a relationship with the Savior, have we made the Atonement effective in our lives. If we have - are we doing so now.  President Uchtdorf also addressed this issue as he talked about what real growth in the gospel.   "Real growth in the gospel of Jesus Christ are those that we can't measure as easily, such as daily prayer, scripture study, family home evening, love at home and for our neighbors, and personal experiences with Christ's Atonement. These are recorded not by a clerk in Church records but in our hearts and in heaven." (end quote) This true growth, true dedication to the gospel and to the Savior teaching - is the formula that changes lives. This testimony and dedication leads us to action - not only to raise ourselves, but also all those around us. As the storms increase around us - only those that have a firm foundation will survive. We need to focus on the principle and actions of the gospel.  Now is the time that the Lord needs each of us to be the type of saints that he can depend on, to be the pillars that others can lean on and ask for assistance. What a great opportunity we have to be here tonight and tomorrow morning - to be instructed by those that have been called and set apart to represent the Savior Jesus Christ. Let's make a resolve to evaluate our lives and to covenant once again to make the necessary changes in order to receive the manifestations of the spirit. 

Stake Conf -2/5/2012 Sunday Morning, Primary Children, Who you are.

Good morning brothers and sisters, it's great to see you all here, especially the primary children.

Today I would like to speak to the young people in the audience. King Benjamin in Mosiah chapter 3, said we needed to humble ourselves and become as little children! Now, I've been reminded many times, this means we should be child like - not childish. So if we follow this counsel, each of us should be able to listen in as well.

I know it's hard to believe, but I remember when I was your age. When I was a kid we would come to this same tabernacle for stake conference. I loved this building, I would sit in the windows in the balcony, today those benches are a little harder than the rest of the seats, but, back then they were all the same, as none of the rows or benches had cushions. They didn't broadcast the session to another building, that wasn't possible. In those days we had four stake conferences a year and we always had a general authority in attendance. I remember seeing a number of members of the quorum of the twelve and other great speakers.

I don't remember what they all looked like - I'm sure some of them were old - bald - fat guys like me. I don't remember exactly what they all said, but I remember how I felt when I heard them speak. You wont remember all that is said here today, but I want all of you to try to pay attention and ask Heavenly Father to help you feel the power of the Holy Ghost, to know that what is being said is true, that God lives and He loves you.

I know that I was still in primary when I heard President Benson - before he became the President of the church. I remember he held the podium on both sides and in his strong loud voice bore testimony that God lives and Jesus is the Christ, and Savior of the world. I'm sure I remember him a little more because he grew up in Cache Valley and his wife was from my home ward.

A few years later when I was a young man - President Monson, our current Prophet - then a member of the twelve, came and called one of my hero's from my ward as our new Stake Patriarch. This is the same man that gave me my Patriarchal Blessing. That revelation has been a blue print or guide for me, most of my life. It's a personal revelation just for me and the challenges I'm going through. There are very few months that go by that I don't read it. It is a strength, and has given me hope during the difficult times. But even with this I have made mistakes or done things that haven't turned out like they should.

Now some of you young people might wounded if God really knows you or cares what is going on in your lives. I don't want to make anyone feel uncomfortable, but just over a month ago members from two different families in our stake went through a scary but amazing experience. The car they were traveling in went off the road in Logan Canyon and into the river, the events that followed were nothing short of miraculous - instantly individuals willingly sprang into action, not thinking of possible consequences, these earthly angels received heavenly assistance - it isn't an coincidence that the right people were on the seen so quickly.

These primary children - went through one of the most difficult situations possible - but their families are amazed at the number of blessings they have received. There is no doubt that they received assistance from a Loving Heavenly Father. The many miracles that transpired are a testimony of the love and knowledge of their existence to our loving Heavenly Father and his Son Jesus Christ.

The circumstances and unsought attention have been difficult for them to accept or understand - but we continue to pray for their recovery and well being. Thankfully the majority of us will not be asked to endure such an event, but God is just as aware or concerned about each of our lives and is willing to give us the assistance we may need.

No matter your age - the Lord is aware of your circumstances and will help you to know what is right. He will help you to know that he is there and will give you a testimony of the truthfulness of the gospel. No matter what you do, don't give up, or think God will abandon you.

Last Sunday night, I attended a fireside at USU where Elder Holland of the Quorum of the Twelve talked about the Prophet Joseph Smith. Joseph Smith was only 14 year of age when he entered the sacred grove and God the Father and Jesus Christ appeared to him.

Elder Holland said: "The Lord starts early (in someone's life) if they allow him to." One of the most spiritual experiences in my life happened when I was 12 years old as I entered that same sacred grove, I receive a manifestation that the Church is true. That manifestation has influenced my life ever since that day. The interesting part is that I knew what the spirit felt like when it came - so I had felt it for years before in primary and at home.

Sadly, this ability to influence the youth of the church is also known by Satan as well. At an earlier and earlier age, he is trying to destroy the innocence and purity of Gods children. Pornography is flooding the earth, Satan is even using cartoons to spread this filth. The question isn't if we will see these things - but when! The next question is what or how will we react when they enter our lives and the lives of our children.

I have related before an example of someone dear to me that has lost everything - his family, profession, and membership in the church because of this addiction. It started at the age of nine - when he and a friend found a video at his friends house, these people were supposedly active members of the church. Those images have never left his recollection, and have caused him to seek other harmful avenues to satisfy these carnal desires. Parents and adults - why would we ever allow these things to enter our homes in any form. President Hinckley called it a plague - would you knowingly bring a deadly virus home to infect your family?

You young people - and also you older people - never view these images or bad pictures, run from them, don't surf the web without your parents knowing which sites your looking at. If you come across something that makes you feel uncomfortable - shut it off and never go back. The Holy Ghost will help you understand what is good or bad.

Satan has given us other lies. Never use tobacco or alcohol. Modern Prophets have also told us this includes any type of addictive drug. Some Doctors and scientist have even gone as far as to say things like marijuana aren't bad for you and should be legalized - this is a lie. How do I know it's a lie? Because someone that knows far more than any of us - God the Father and His son Jesus Christ have told us it is a lie through their Prophets. These substances are addictive and will dull your spiritual senses - making it harder, or impossible to have the influence of the Holy Ghost in your life. Didn't at one time these supposed intellectuals tell the people that the world was flat?

Make the decision today - never to use these things! True happiness and joy can only come through obedience to the laws God has given us. Parents and grandparents - make these things topics of conversation individually with your children and grandchildren - this should also be a topic for family home evening as well. We should be having these conversations a lot sooner than perhaps we have ever realized.

Now I don't want to spend anymore time talking about the bad things that are around you. Because there are so many that are good. There is a song that each of you have song hundreds of times during your short lives. It's - "I am a child of God." There are no truer words written in song - I testify, that you are literally a child of God. Not only does he know you - but you have a personal relationship with him. When we see him again you will recognize him and remember the love he has for you. He has sent you to this earth to receive a physical body, he has given you a home, parents, friends and church leaders that love you and will guide and direct you. While we are here on the earth, we need to gain faith and testimonies, and to receive the ordinances that allow us to return to live with Him eternally.

All of the other things or desires that you may have, such as being popular, rich, or famous are not important - in reality if we put them before the things of God, they will be detrimental to your eternal progression and happiness. As we do the things He asks us to do - He will help us to understand what is important. Indeed, He has given us great blessings and opportunities.

Brothers and sisters, we have each came to this earth with unique personalities and talents. The training of our parents, our experiences and the decisions we make along the way, can enhance these God given characteristics and helps us to gain more talents and abilities. We have been told that we were sent to this earth to be tried, tested, and prove that we will be obedient and faithful no matter what the situations we are placed under. All of us will make mistakes - thats OK, just make sure you try to make them better. These experiences, good and bad, change our outlook, abilities, and personality. Remember that you are wonderful and are a child of God, which means you have a lot of potential.

When we came to this earth we have earthly parents. For the most part they do a wonderful job. Help your parents out, smile, be happy and know that they love you. Physically we inherit certain characteristics passed down through our parents. Some of these characteristics, good and bad, dictate what you look like and some of the health concerns that you may face. Some of us are short, some are tall, some of us don't have hair. Don't be as concerned with what you look like on the outside, be more concerned with what you act like and what you are inside. Look at the positives - you know I don't have to spend anytime each day combing my hair.

Just like we inherit characteristics from our earthly parents, we inherit spiritual characteristics and abilities from our Heavenly parents. When we act on them, we become more like Him. This allows us to return to live in His presence. Because he wants us to return to live with him, he has sent our older brother Jesus Christ to show us how to make it back. We need to remember he is our brother and loves us. We need to read his teachings, counsel and guidance. We do this as we read the scriptures, tell your parents tonight that you want to read the scriptures together as a family. Our father and brother wants to hear from us, we do this as we pray. Tell them how much you love them, thank them for what they have done for you. Pray to them more than one time a day - pray individually and as a family.

Stake Conf. Sat Evening 2/4/2012, Hearts of Fathers

A few weeks ago I had a wonderful experience. All of you know the Stake Presidency and High Counsel on the third Sunday, attend and speak in each ward. As members of the Stake Presidency we do not speak as often as the High Counsel, so there are a few ward's I haven't spoken to in years. Accompanying the stake representative is a recently returned missionary.

The missionary assigned to me that day was my son, who had recently returned from his mission in Argentina. The change that comes over these young men and women during their missions is amazing. These young people leave as boys and girls and come home as powerful servants of God. So the normally wonderful experience, was enhanced by the love and excitement of being with my son. I told the congregation that I anticipated that he would use a certain scripture - 1 Nephi 1:1 - adding his own name in the verse to give it more meaning.

"I (Spencer) having been born of goodly parents, therefore I was taught somewhat in all the learning of my father."

Now, I was kidding when I brought it up - but, I do hope that this is one of the things he feels he could say. I remember as I was preparing my remarks, I searched the scriptures looking for verses that had to do with the love or an association of a parent and their child.

My favorite one I found was in the beginning of Mormon's epistle to his son Moroni given in Moroni 8: 2-3.

"My beloved son, Moroni, I rejoice exceedingly that your Lord Jesus Christ hath been mindful of you, and hath called you to his ministry, and to his holy work."

"I am mindful of you always in my prayers, continually praying unto God the Father in the name of his Holy Child, Jesus, that he, through his infinite goodness and grace, will keep you through the endurance of faith on his name to the end."

Every loving parent would hope and pray that God would keep and support their children. Their salvation and progression is / or should be our top priority. We all get excited when our loved ones are worthy and used by the Lord to future his kingdom.

These feeling aren't just for our children - but they are also for our parents and extended families, and they for us. One of the greatest mysteries of the gospel to the world is that these relationships and concerns reach beyond the vail and are eternal in nature.

When is the last time / or have you ever stopped to personalize the existence of your ancestors. Your greater grand parents first kiss - the love they had for their children. The heart ache of losing one of their children. These shouldn't just be names on a sheet of paper - they are individuals that danced, sang and hopefully enjoyed life and the love of their family. I don't know if they thought much about us - but if they did they wanted us to be happy and have the things we need. I'm sure they also want these family relationships to continue and grow into the eternities. This can only do done in the temples of God, which most of our Ancestors didn't have an opportunity to attend.

I read a quote the other day from President Hinckley that made me think a little differently about how significant temple work and redeeming the dead should be. He pointed out that the words of the Prophet Malachi forecasting the coming of Elijah to turn the hearts of the fathers to the children and the children to the fathers, was given multiple time to the Prophet Joseph Smith, long before he received the golden plates, before he received the priesthood, was baptized or even the church of Jesus Christ was organized. That night and morning as the angel Moroni appeared to the young prophet four times - each time he recited this declaration. Quoting it slightly different than what is printed in the King James Bible. Indeed this message was so important to the restoration of the gospel and the salvation of all mankind that it needed to be given in a method that would not be forgotten.

One might ask what this statement means?

"To turn the hearts" In a recent church publication it states - "(It) means that individuals and families feel a spiritual awakening as they serve their deceased relatives and experience the joy of being active participants in a fundamental part of Heavenly Father's plan of salvation. Participation in temple and family history work touches the soul as the Holy Ghost bears witness to the eternal nature of families."

On April 3, 1836, the Prophet Elijah appeared in the Kirtland Temple and restored the keys of the sealing power, fulfilling the prophecy that had been given. Enabling families to be sealed together forever. "Whatsoever is bound on earth would be bound in heaven."

This made it possible for that eternal nature to be completed. Families to be together forever.

Elder Russell M Nelson - stated.

" Elijah came to turn the hearts of the fathers to the children and the children to the fathers. With that, natural affection between generations began to be enriched. This restoration was accomplished by what is sometimes called the Spirit of Elijah -- a manifestation of the Holy Ghost bearing witness of the divine nature of the family."

I believe it is important to point out that the Spirit of Elijah - is in reality a manifestation of the Holy Ghost. The mission of the Holy Ghost is to bear witness of the the Father and His Son Jesus Christ - and the importance of their gospel and teachings. The Spirit of Elijah brings with it an increased desire to redeem those that haven't had the opportunity to receive the blessings of the gospel. There's a joy and excitements that comes through these experiences. Those of us that have participated in finding and redeeming the dead cherish those experiences and the spirit that accompanies it.

President Thomas S Monson -

"In my own family, some of our most sacred and treasured experiences have occurred when we have joined together in the temple to preform sealing ordinances for our deceased ancestors.... The all-important and crowning blessings of membership in the church are those blessings which we receive in the temples of God."

In our stake conference last October I spoke of some of my ancestors that I was able to find and take to the temple. In November, a month later - the day after our son returned from his mission, we as a family went to the temple and preformed the baptisms and confirmations for a 100 individuals. All nine of our immediate family members were there to participate. Our son who had been away for two years was able to baptize his sisters and mother for individuals that hadn't had the opportunity in this life to receive these wonderful blessings. I was then able to performed the confirmations. Like President Monson this has become one of my most sacred treasured experiences.

The events surrounding the process of finding and performing the ordinances of salvation for my ancestors have been immeasurable. The Spirit of Elijah had changed my being - whom and what I am. On multiple occasions I have found names - seemingly by accident that weren't there just a short time before. I've had impressions that names belonged to a certain family, when everything on the screen seemed to shows otherwise, only to link those names together a short time later. Perhaps the most miraculous part of this experience, is that just six months ago I sat in a training meeting given by Elder Bednar, where he talked about our participation in this great work of redeeming the dead. I thought how I had never found an individual to take to the temple - the spirit bore witness to me that I needed to change that.

Now as a family, we have found 100's of names and preformed 100's of ordinances. A few months ago my wife and I went to the temple for our ward temple night. Another couple convinced us to skip the session and do some sealing. None of the names being sealed that night were ones that I had found. What took place in that sealing room is perhaps the most spiritual experience I have had during this process - I was overcome with the spirit, I felt the presence of my ancestors - those whom's names I have been working on. The message was extremely clear - this was their ultimate goal, to be sealed together as families. Tears filled my eyes and I literally started to quiver. Lori sat next to me and asked what was wrong. I relayed to her some of what I was feeling. I was allowed to feel their presence - even though none of their names were being done that night. What a wonderful tender experience this was. These feelings have helped me to continue to accomplish this work.

Brothers and sisters, it takes time to do the temple work for so many individuals. But in the next few week we as a family will go to the temple and start the final ordinances for those first names - the binding of individuals and families for eternity. I envision - maybe a bit selfishly, all of those spirits - that were connected on earth, will be there to be bound together eternally. Perhaps my deceased parents will be allowed to join in - maybe these are some of the individuals that they have been teaching in the spirit world. Perhaps they may say, it's about time - Paul got this done.

Brothers and sisters I have had some extremely strong impressions why I have had so much success in this area. First, that my ancestors have accepted the gospel and are excited to partake of the blessings and ordinances necessary for their eternal salvation. Second it has been a tender mercy and testimony builder in my life that I have so desperately needed. The amount of revelation and personal inspiration is one of the strongest I have ever experienced. I still have many areas of growth that need to take place. But my testimony of the existence of a loving Father and the Savior Jesus Christ are as strong as they have ever been. And lastly, I have felt an increased responsibility to inspire and testify to the members of this wonderful stake and my extended family the importance of this great work. There are millions of spirits anxiously awaiting their opportunity to partake of these blessings. Many of which have connections to each of us in this room. If your having a hard time finding a name to take to the temple - keep trying, our ancestors know where their records are and will help you find them. But still continue to go to the temple to do the works for the names that are already there. If you don't hold a current temple recommend or have never been to the temple - don't wait another moment to do the things necessary to make these blessing part of your life.

7th Ward -Coming unto Christ

Brothers and sisters - we are told to liken the scriptures unto our selfs. I thought that my son may use -

1 Nephi 1:1

I (Spencer) having been born of goodly parents, therefore I was taught somewhat in all of the learning of my father.

That would have been great - but perhaps a more realistic scripture would be in -

Alma 56: 47-48 (speaking of the stripping warriors).

....they had been taught by their mothers, that if they did not doubt, God would deliver them.

And they rehearsed unto me all the words of their mothers, saying: we do not doubt that our mothers knew it.

I heard a talk once wondering why they didn't mention their fathers - if you recall these young me came from the Lamanites - whom covenanted not to take up arm against their breathers. At their first encounter - hundred of these men were killed without fighting back. Many of these young very likely grew up in single parent homes. Mothers testifying to the of the truthfulness of the gospel.

Indeed the poet William Wallace's words - "The hand that rocks the cradle, is the hand that rules the world." Is true.

This isn't the setting to debate why I think my son had a successful mission - or understands the workings of the spirit in his life up to this point.

But it is a place to discuss what brings us to / or allows us to receive the spirit as a constant companion in our lives. To come unto the Savior and receive the promised blessings of the gospel.

All of us have heard hundreds of analogies or examples of what we need to do in order to have and keep the spirit. Being somewhat simple minded I can sort of understand how a radio or cell phone works - apparently there are hundreds if not thousands of sound waves all around us. Despite everyone of us in the room having a phone - mine will only ring when the proper steps are taken. We need to fine tune our receiver to pick up the message that is being given. When we tune in to the possible choices - like in our car, there are both good and bad choices that we can listen to. If we do not follow the proper steps, or our receivers are broken or just if we fell to turn to the proper frequency - the spirit will not, or better yet - can't abide with us.

I would suggest that there are three basis steps of categories to receiving the spirit and Coming unto the Savior.

The first step in receive this wonderful gift is the desire to have it as part of our lives. "Ask and ye shall receive, knock and it shall be opened unto you." This may seem simple or even a bit odd - because who wouldn't want to have the spirit in their lives or be close to the Savior?

In section 121 of the D&C the Savior talked about those that are not chosen because their hearts are set so much on the things of the world and aspire to the honors of men. Brothers and sisters, is there anything that we knowingly or perhaps even unconsciously choosing that takes precedence over our desires of having the spirit - these people have not learned or can't understand that certain steps need to be taken in order to receive the promised blessings. If we truly have the desire to be close to the spirit - it will happen (period).

This then focuses the solution or problem directly back to the question - how strong is your personal desires to come unto Christ?

The rest of the verse in section 121 bring up the second step to receiving the spirit and Coming unto Christ. "The power of heaven can not be controlled or handle, only upon the principles of righteousness." Brother and Sisters we need to be righteous and obedient to Gods commands. The spirit can not dwell in an unrighteous setting. It may be able to bare witness or guide us in a direction of truth or show us some of the things we need to change. "But when we undertake to cover our sins, or to gratify our pride, our vane ambition, or to exercise control, or dominion or compulsion upon the souls of the children of men, in any degree of unrighteousness, behold the heavens withdraw themselves; the Spirit of the Lord is grieved; and when it is withdrawn, Amen to the priesthood or the authority of that man."

It then tells us that anyone in this condition is left unto themselves - left without the spirit.

The third step that I would like to discuss is that we need to continually add fuel to our fires - so to speak. We need to make sure that we are continuing to learn, serve and come closer to the Savior through personal prayer, scripture study and revelation.. When someone fails to feed their testimonies - complacency, idealess, apathy enters the heart - effecting their desires to come unto the Savior and opening the doors of sin.

I had the opportunity to attend a meeting the other day where they talked about some of the reason certain youth have left the church or have become less active - the second largest group that has fallen away from the church is that of return missionaries. This makes no logical sense to me. They told us that these young people are so involved in study, prayer and doing good for others - that when they get home, there seem to be a void - a let down of sorts. The worries of the world, the honors of men begin to creek in and become more important. Satan sees this as a perfect opportunity to instill doubt, discouragement which allowing the carnal desires of sin to take root. There is no greater counsel than The Lord's warning to watch and pray always - lest we enter into temptation.

It doesn't matter what stage of life we are in - if we fail to have a constant flow of spiritual knowledge and experience in our lives - that space will be replaced with the suggestions or teaching of Satan.

Some people seemingly have a hard time reading the scriptures on a continual basis - (two of my prized possession).

King David (Never Given)

Brothers and sisters, there are thousands of stories in the scriptures that help us learn the nature of God and what we need in order to find the peace and love God has promises us. Some of my favorite lessons are included in the life and trials of King David.

In order to understand the full measure of his life, we need to understand why and how he was called to rule Israel. Samuel the prophet anointed his predecessor Saul, to be the King. Because of the wickedness of the Amalekites the Lord commanded Saul to destroy all that they had, and to spare none of them. Successful to a degree Saul and the Israelite army destroyed every Amalekite save the King – then they destroyed all that they thought was vile. But they saved the best of their flocks, taking the spoils of their conquest. Samuel came unto Saul, knowing from the Lord what had taken place. Saul, like many of us, justified his actions; he even blamed them on someone else. He declared that he had fulfilled his assignment and had saved the flocks in order to make a sacrifice to the Lord. But the Lord was asking for a sacrifice of obedience - not of flesh.

Samuel said – “when thou wasn’t little in thine own sight, was’t thou not made head of the tribes of Israel?” This is seemingly a common occurrence that when we are humble the Lord calls or uses us to accomplish his work – but as stated in D&C 121 “as soon as they get a little authority, as they suppose, they will immediately begin to exercise unrighteous dominion.” Saul’s pride overtook his judgment. He blamed others. “But the people took the spoil, sheep and oxen, the chief of the things which should have been utterly destroyed, to sacrifice unto the Lord their God.” Does the end, brother and sisters, justify the means? They claimed they would use the spoils to worship God – but in order to get the spoils they had disobeyed the counsel that was given.

Could this be similar to someone cheating others in business – claiming that they would help the poor or be better prepared to serve God because of their means? Or – to hypocritically pray for help to win the lottery so they could better serve God. Wouldn’t the Lord be able to provide such means in a way that the commandments would still be followed if such means were needed? Samuel asked; “Hath the Lord as great delight in .. offerings and sacrifice as in obeying the voice of the Lord? Behold to obey is better than sacrifice, and to hearken than the fat of rams.” The act of obedience and following the counsels of God shows a humble and willing soul and heart. Someone being little in their own sight, – indicates an understanding of their place with God, it’s an admission of our total dependency upon Him. Indeed we would be nothing without his assistance.

Saul was once obedient to the commands of God. He then questioned why they couldn’t keep some of the material belongings of the Amelikes – He started to think he knew more than God, that his commandments really weren’t that important. He justified his actions, even using religion or worshipping God as part of his excuse. He took pride in the things he was able to do - forgetting it was because of God that they were possible.

This pride and disobedience caused the Lord to reject Saul as the leader of Israel. Samuel was commanded to anoint another in his steed. He was told to go to Bethlehem and to Jesse, because the Lord had chosen one of his sons to be the new King of Israel. After seeing Jesse's sons Samuel was extremely impress because of their countenances and stature. But the Lord refused the older brothers stating: “the Lord seeth not as man seeth; for man looketh on the outward appearance, but the Lord looketh on the heart.” Such a statement should give all of us bald guys some hope – what we look like isn’t as important to God, but instead it’s what is in our hearts. Seven impressive young men passed by Samuel – all were rejected. Samuel asked if were any more children? There remained one more, the youngest who was watching over his father’s flocks. He was the one that had the pure heart, and with whom the Lord would call. Then Samuel anointed him to be King of Israel. This was David. The scripture state “the spirit of the Lord came upon David from that day forward.”

Samuel learned that he shouldn’t judge or discriminate because of someone’s appearance. Do we treat other differently because of their skin – economic circumstances – or just because they think or look differently than we do. The Lord looks on the heart and the straight of their faith.

I think that most people think first of David when it comes to his encounter with Goliath. Most fail to realize that this event happened after he had been anointed King of Israel. What promises were given in that blessing are unknown. Perhaps he received the same promise given to the Sons of Mosiah – which resulted in their willingness to place themselves in harm way in order to show the power of God.

Not even a member of the army – David was delivering supplies to his brothers, on the request of his father. His military experience had no encounters with mighty worriers – but with lions and wild beast defending his father’s flocks. While at the battlefront, hearing Goliath blasphemy before God he said: “Who is this uncircumcised Philistine, that he should defy the armies of the living God?” He questioned why no one would go against this giant of a man – he knew that the Lord would deliver him, because he had done it before. So without any armor, assistance and much confidence from those around him – he submitted his faith, courage and pure heart to the glory of God and the defense of his country.

As Goliath defiled the God of Israel and mocked David, David answered: “Thou cometh to me with a sword, and with a spear, and with a shield: but I come to thee in the name of the Lord of hosts, the God of the armies of Israel, whom thou hast defiled. This day will the Lord deliver thee into mine hands.” His faith and strength in the power of God was stronger than that of any other man – for the spirit of the Lord was with him. We all know the rest of the story. We all have had our own Goliaths in life – trials, challenges and pains that at first glance seem overwhelming or impossible to overcome. We need to come to the same understanding that David did, that with the assistance of the Lord nothing is impossible.

What is the will of the Father in our lives? Are our hearts pure, centered on the glory of God, or are we looking for the gratification and praise of men? Speaking of those that are unable to magnify their priesthood the Lord told us the reason - "because their hearts were set so much on the things of this world and aspire to the honors of men that they do not learn this one lesson – that the rights of the priesthood are inseparably connected with the powers of heaven, and that the powers of heaven cannot be controlled or handled only upon the principles of righteousness." This formula –may be simple in concept, but is seemingly hard for most of us to implement. The implementation is achieved by putting the things of God first – submitting to His will for each of us. The knowing of that "will" comes by the power of revelation, manifest by the Holy Ghost.

During the coming years David led the Israelite army, become a powerful and beloved King. He remained righteous most of his day. Indeed we could look upon the events that surrounded the life of this wonderful man and see some of the greatest stories of faith and dedication in the scriptures.

Then something happened that led to his downfall. One evening he rose from his bed and was walking on his roof and from his roof he saw a woman washing herself: and the woman was very beautiful to look upon. That event in it owns right, though inappropriate wasn’t the sin. It’s how he reacted and what he did next that led to his downfall. We don’t know if this was the only time that it had happened, or if it was her intent to be seem in the first place – but he looked upon her in a way that he shouldn’t have – which led him to sin. He enquired about her, he sent massagers to bring her to him. This was a man that was highly favored of the Lord – which had been blessed with perhaps everything he wanted. But he allowed an inappropriate thought to enter his heart and mind and began to dwell on it.

Today there are many ways to look upon a man or woman that we shouldn’t. Pornography seem to be running ramped – T.V., movies and the Internet seen to have an endless supple of inappropriate behavior. Do we come upon it innocently, and then allow our curiosity to overcome us. Do we awkwardly allow it to be seen in its simplest forms until we become desensitized to its existence? Some of us know that it isn’t good for us, but we think that it is different or exciting. Do you think it couldn’t happen to you – it happened to one of the Lords most valiant servants?

Prophets of God have warned us about this erosion of our tolerances – they have said: “first we abhor sin, then we tolerate it, then we embrace it.” We have seen this trend through out the world concerning chastity, and many other commandments.

These inappropriate thoughts are not just reserved to the law of chastity. King Benjamin made that clear when he said:

“And finally, I cannot tell you all the things whereby ye may commit sin; for there are divers ways and means, even so many that I cannot number them.”

Brothers and sisters, I would like to ask the question why are you here today? Is it because you feel obligated? Were you excited to hear the word of God? Do you consider it a social event? Was it to partake of the sacrament and renew you covenants with God? What ever the answer to that question is – you need to also ask yourself what will I do now because I was here? Has the spirit has whispered in your hearts and minds helping you to understood what you need to do in order to come unto Christ?

Testimony -

Favorite Campfire Scriptures (Never Given)

Welcome brethren – but most of all I would like to welcome the youth men here tonight. I would like to speak to each of you. Now, what I’m going to say could also help the old guys that are with you – so please do me a favor and wake them up if they fall asleep.

The decisions that you will be making in the next few years will influence the rest of your eternity. Now if you make a mistake – you will still have time to make it right, that’s what the atonement is all about. But it’s also been shown that those of you that mostly make righteousness decisions in your youth will avoid many of the hardest hurdles that can be put in your path. (Example)If you never taste alcohol you cannot become an alcoholic. You need to make the decision NOW to not do anything that you will regret latter in your life.

Those of you that know me very well know that I’m a “sports-aholic.” When I was younger I played some sort of sport almost every day. Now you need to know that back in those days we didn’t have video games – I-pods – cell phones. We did have T.V., but there were only three stations, and I had six sisters that ruled the roost – it was better if I was outside playing ball with my friends. I remember after my mission when we got cable and ESPN became a part of my life – 24 hours of sports. I sure that is just like heaven!

Now everyday on ESPN there is a program called Sports Center - an hour-long recap of what happened in the world of sports that day. During that program there is a segment called the TOP TEN, the ten best sports plays of the day.

I’ve spent a lot of years working in the young men’s programs of the church. I have been a: scout master, advisor, your men’s counselor and a young men’s president four different times. I’ve sat around hundreds of campfires – telling jocks, eating smores – and telling stories from the scriptures. I would like to talk about my top ten favorite scripture stories as they relate to you young men and the decisions you are about to make. There are 100’s of possibilities – your list may be different than mine.

#10 – Moses leading the children of Israel out of Egypt – Here was a man that could have been one of the rulers of the greatest country or Kingdoms in the history of the world. He rejected it all to learn about the God of his fathers and help those that couldn't help themselves. With the priesthood he showed the power of God is far mightier than the power of men. He divided the Red Sea and led Gods people to freedom on dry ground. Are you willing to reject the praise of friends or the world to get to know the GOD of your fathers?

#9 – Shadrach, Meshach, and Aded-nego – Many of you won’t recognize these names. These were three young men, perhaps missionary age, that were in bondage in Babylon to King Nebuchadnezzar – they were still given great authority and responsibility because of their abilities and character. The King made a golden idol – a man made God. He then commanded everyone in the Kingdom to worship this idol or they would be cast into a fiery furnace. The King questioned them and told them their fate if they didn’t worship his Gods – they answered and said, “Our God that we serve is able to deliver us – “But if not”…. we will not serve thy Gods, nor worship the golden image which thou has set up.” When they were thrown into the furnace it was so hot that those that threw them in perished doing so. But they were protected. Are you willing to stand up for what is right no matter the consequences that could follow? Do we have the faith that God would protect us? What a great campfire story.

#8 – Nephi going to get the plates of Labon. Despite the complaining of his older brothers Nephi said – “I will go and do the things the Lord hath commanded, for I know that the Lord giveth no commandment unto the children of men, save he shall prepare a way for them that they may accomplish the thing which he commandeth them.” We need to exercise total obedience to all of God’s commands – they may seem hard at times, but He will help us if He has commanded us to do it. The Lord has commanded all young men to prepare to serve an honorable mission – you need to start preparing today

#7 - King David - this is the same young man that killed Goliath. He had no armor or assistance from others. All he had was a sling, unwavering faith in God and a pure heart. He had shown this same kind of courage before protecting his father’s flocks from wild beast. He knew with the Lords help he was more powerful than this giant. He became a mighty King. Faithful and valiant - then he looked upon a woman that was not his wife in a way that he shouldn't have. This led to him breaking the law of Chastity and then he tried to hide his sins. One of Gods most beloved servants lost his standing with God. We should learn that no matter who we are - we need to be on guard, today there are many opportunities to look upon a woman in a way we shouldn't. Pornography can and will destroy your soul - run from it like it is a plague. Don’t touch others or ourselves in an inappropriate manner.

#6 - The Brother of Jared - What an amazing man. He wrote the sealed part of the Book of Mormon. He built barges or ships to come to the Promised Land. I envision they looked like large footballs floating in the ocean. But there were some problems - they couldn't breath inside the ships, there was no way to steer during the journey and they had no light in order to see. After asking the Lord – He gave him the solutions to the first two problems, then the Lord said about the third. "What will ye that I should do that ye may have light in your vessels?" The Lord will give you guidance and direction - but he also requires you to study it out - to make decisions and then ask him if it is right, or is in accordance with His will in our lives. The result was far beyond his expectations - He saw the finger of the Lord, he received increased revelation.

#5 - Amman’s Missionary journey - How could be a list without Amman cutting off the arms of his enemies. Serving the King of the Laminates he was excited when something went wrong - in the past this would have caused all of the servant and himself to be put to death. He saw an opportunity to show the power of God. He and his brothers gave everything they had while serving their mission. The result was thousands of Laminates coming unto Christ. When you serve your mission - you will need to have the spirit of the Lord with you and give everything you have. A mission isn't always easy - but it's worth every sacrifice we may be called to endure

#4 - Elisha - This is my favorite campfire story, sitting in the mountain valley with a group of young men. Israel was at war - the King of Syria was mad because Israel seemingly knew their moves before they made them. So they came up with a wonderful idea - lets capture the prophet. In the night this great army surrounded the city in which the prophet lived. There was a young man living with and helping him - perhaps he was a deacon, when the boy came out he saw the army surrounding the city. He went to the prophet and asked what they should do. Elisha answered - "Fear not; for those that be with us are more than they that be with them. And Elisha prayed, and said, Lord open his eyes that he may see. and the Lord opened the eyes of the young man; and he saw; and, behold, the mountain was full of horses and chariots of fire round about Elisha." Brethren - those that are righteous will always be more than those that aren't and they can be protected by the powers of heaven. Are you worthy to receive heavenly assistance? I testify that the angels of God know you and will administer to your needs.

#3 - The Stripling Warriors - I don't need to spend much time on this one – all of us know the story. None of them perished in war, they fought valiantly with courage and straight, but behold, this was not all - they were men who were true at all times in whatsoever thing they were entrusted. They fulfilled their responsibilities. Their mothers taught them what was right. Brethren listen to your Mothers and Fathers - be faithful in all you are asked to do. The almost 55,000 missionaries in the field are similar to these Stripling Warrior – we need to be valiant and serve where needed.

#2 - Joseph Smiths first vision - This is the greatest event that has happened in this dispensation. It was the beginning of the restoration of the gospel on the earth. The restoration of the priesthood - the power and authority of God on the earth. If this event happened - the Book of Mormon is true - there is a living prophet on the earth - he is guiding and directing us. This should be your desire - to receive a testimony of the restoration of the gospel. That God lives and answers our prayers. The Prophet Joseph Smith was your age when he received these manifestations - you can receive a testimony of these events and the truthfulness of the gospel as well

#1 - The Atonement of the Savior Jesus Christ. This is the greatest event in history - it opened the door of salvation, a way to be forgiven of our sins and return to be as God. Every organization, event, meeting in the church and family should be directed to this purpose, to bring us closer to the Savior - to accept his sacrifice and repent of our sins, to become as He is. Then as eternal families to return to live with God. This is the reason we do what we do - that we have the priesthood - that we go on missions and help those in need. Our goal should not only be to receive this testimony - but too tell every living soul that Jesus is the Christ and He loves for each of us.

These are some of the greatest stories in the scriptures. We need to read them over and over - along with all the scriptures. As well do so the spirit of the Lord will be with us and give us the direction that we need.